From Brooklyn to Okinawa (My Father's Secret Life)
At some point shortly after the Dec 7th bombing of
I was left with nothing more than fading memories of aging men, their vague recollections of the times, and the context of the events surrounding his military service. I had to somehow piece it all together at some point. Even his closet friends knew almost nothing of his time in the service, never actually saw him in a uniform, or without his levush (traditional clothing) upon his return. He remained apart and away for only as long as it took to do what he felt was right. His beard grew back and his life went on, but I am told that the war changed him in many ways. Having no details of who he was before the war, I can make no comment as to comparisons.
My father went through basic training somewhere in
Cpl. Aronovitz worked alongside some 2000 other ‘engineers’ building airstrips on islands recently captured from occupying Japanese forces. Immediately after a beachhead was cleared by Marines and barrages from Navy gun-ships, my father’s battalion would land and begin pouring concrete for an airstrip. It was grueling work and often had to be done under the hot sun, in swarms of mosquitoes, and intermittent gunfire from the surrounding jungles, which had not yet been completely cleared of Japanese defenders and snipers. Try doing your job while bullets are being sent your way.
Father kept his old uniforms in the same closet he did his rifle and some other personal items; some of those family heirlooms from
The sneaking-into-the-closet incident occurred shortly after my bar mitzvah, and the question lingered in my mind for some 10 years on before I finally amassed enough courage to ask him outright. It was right after the bris-milah (circumcision) of my second son, E.C., and my father and I were both drinking quite a bit in honor of the simcha (celebration). It was at that point that, for some reason unbeknownst to me, I decide to ‘pop’ the question. My father looked at me with a stunned sort of expression and said “You want to know? So I’ll tell you, but only because of the vodka.”
“The Japanese were very tough and even our best troops had a hard time dislodging even a few of them. I never met one face to face, but I did see many, many dead Japanese soldiers on the islands where we put down airstrips. I felt rachmones (pity) for them because I knew they weren’t going to win the war, and were going to keep fighting no matter what. I could never hate them the way I hated the Nazis yimach shemum (may their names be erased).”
He continued.
“Every day that it didn’t rain and most days even when it did, the weather was hot and we had to work out in the open sun without shade for hours at a time. We would only wear uniforms at night when it cooled off a bit or during days when we weren’t working on the runways. Sometimes our shirts would be draped over clotheslines we set up for laundry or on scarecrows we put up to fool the Japanese snipers. On several occasions Japanese fighter planes would strafe the airfields with machine gun fire and manage only to massacre our clean laundry. This is how my shirts and pants got the holes. I still thank God I wasn’t wearing them very much at all. I kept them so I shouldn’t ever forget.”
(There was one other Aronovitz who fought in the war and was killed in the Battle of Saipan. He is related to us. My father, however, never knew him.)
I had hoped that this conversation would lead to more conversation, but I was to be once again disappointed. My father was never accused of talking too much. We never spoke of it again. Perhaps I should have always gotten him a little drunk first.
6 Comments:
That's a wonderful story. Thank you for sharing that.
Wow, that is amazing! I can't imagine how frustrating it must be to have this part of your fathers life closed to you. I am sure you are very proud.
Ari,
Good suggestion. Those records I have. My father's experiences, in his own words and feelings, I have very little. Dates, ranks, pay scales, etc. are not important to me.
I think his silence was important, not so much in terms of war and its consequences (he was not a pacifist), but in terms of his own reluctance to share many details of his life. Maybe he didn't want me to ask tough questions about how he would have kept kashrus or how he got along with the goyim or if he visited synagogues in some of the Oriental ports he stopped in.
The Army doesn't keep records like that.
Kol Tuv
Your Dad sounds like an amazing guy!
My Dad was a captain in the US army and was a veteran of the Korean war. He enlisted in the army to spare his younger brother from having to be drafted because his younger brother was in learing in kollel. My Dad was always very open to us about the fact that he tried as hard as he could to maintain kashrus, but 'you have to do what you have to do'.
I would love to hear more details about your Dad's experiences; should I send some chivas regal your way?
Kasamba,
Thanks for your thoughtful comments!
First, my father never drank scotch, even if it came in 'tefillin bag.' Secondly, the old man died 17 years ago. I could pour him a lechaim but it's not likely he'd taste it.
Kol Tuv
Then I will pour myself some advocaat and drink to his memory!
L'chaim!
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